So before that xmass story... I would like to open some continuous, i would say guide to girls mind in today electronic world. Something my father probably will never understand and most probably if you were born earlier than some 1980 you wont either, but i will try to be very factual well for all our amusement...
World around chick today is surrounded by guys, friendly girls and competitor girls. You see, there are no casts for guys, because every chick is interested in all of them, of course not in same sense, but we love attention, ok? And sweet little nerdy guy in glasses who is afraid to even speak to us is even more of the interest because we sense when somebody like us and sensitive guys tend to be more loving.
Now, for many, mostly historical hysterical reasons, we need to be those being chased, and we are the treasure on this world, so we should not be available easy and we should be looking at us same as guys looking at us - that it is no big deal if you give your self to a girl, but it is a big deal if girl give her self to you. Therefor, we are trying to keep distance and hide our cheeky feelings. Not sure if it makes sense, but you are not reading Herald Tribune, so.
Chapter about Collective
In collective every chick tries to be on top of the interest, it is like a game and race at the same time. You might think we dont care, but we love attention and we love remarks about our dress. If you tell us something really cheeky, like that we have awesome butt in those jeans, we will look angry, but thinking about it all evening and longer. Making sure we have even better jeans the next day. I would kill hearing it about other girl from guy who i like though.
So as guys discussing about girl, class mate or colleague at work, she is happy. Now we love to be in your dreams (even those red rated ones) so every subtle feedback we get is cool for our dreams :-). Today it is hard to not have your photos available somewhere, so your class mates or colleagues at work will eventually see you also differently dressed than at work/school (where it should be teasing, but leaving lot to desire!). There is something special about colleagues and people you spend a lot of civil time with, but not being involved with them emotionally. For both sides.
At school i was very very silent shy girl, but loving photography i had few snapshots of my self or my friends here and there and it is awesome to watch those reaction from people knowing you so different.
About stunt i did when i was leaving school i will tell next time. Just let me tease with that the experience forced me to make my own homepage and when i started to work, i shared that website with those who asked. And they shared it between them and so on.
My first website was pretty innocent, but i had there some vacation pics in bikini and couple of very romantic shots with reduced dress effort (all very covered, just my rule of not wearing a bra was affecting it a bit :-) ). It got complete hit with my work colleagues and ex school mates, it was unbelievable. Other girls hated me, honestly, but i never had many friends between average girls anyway so i dint cared much. They loved me and was talking a lot to me and about me. I loved that attention and the comments made me blush so often, i had to repeat some comments like billion times then at home, playing with my self thinking about what others thinking about me. They started to pierce my tight clothes even more then they did from start and was very happy from any attention i returned back. I was like everybody's pet in the office. Well except my female boss and couple exceptions, but...
More next time :-)
What do you guys think about when seeing your work colleague or class mate pics on web?